Why men love bitches?


 

I start with question? is that a subject to write book about ? Seriously? Just think for one minute and not is that really subject to write about?

If you are enough talented and smart and you have a dream to have you own book and also you think you want to rock it and be the best seller …etc, I would like to say please be careful about the subject! You might feed the word with that! You will influence the society, a person, a family …for sure you do! the words are matter . Our thought is become a phrase but not any idea can be a book?!

I don’t know which word could be the right one helping me to describe my feeling about this subject and the name of the book “why men love bitches “but I try my best.

I saw a book first time in a best seller shelf and I said what?!! And I wonder why? I bought a book because I was curious .i read it because I was curious .but it give me nothing. it is just made me more nerves . I had a friend, she bought the book also. Surprisingly she is married and she thought she need to read this book, but it is made her nerves also. She throws out the book later.

 Do we really need this kind of information based of personal opinion of one person who we called just writer? Do we really know how her personal life going even? is she psychologist? Therapist? Coach life? Dose the write has enough Knowledge about the women feeling or men attitude? This book is translated in 20other languages? Dose she really know about the other cutler and how this book might affect them? And the style of their life?

In the background of the book there is a question which says “do you think you are too nice?” Why we should not be nice? is she trying to advice the girl to be a bitch to be loved ? To not show their feeling?  To not act emotional? For what to keep the man beside you ? All the book is about the man might dump you and what women should do to not be dumped .it is ridicules. I am sorry to say that but it is.  

Instead of having this type of book with this smart name (yes it is just a smart name which made this book to sell a lot )it could be something about how we can make the relation work better by knowing our self , and being more confident . We could have a book about who you are, what you want in your relation and how important is your relation. Do you really consider this book as self help relationship or does just helping girls to run better game and act like a machine without even know why they have to do that. this kind of book not even helping women to be better on their relation but give them more tension in a way how they have to act like this  , why they did not do it before in their previous relation ?when and where  have to start it ?  It brings not even confidence but  more uncertainty and confusion in behavior specially to women .it give them an idea if you don’t act like this then you are loser and your man will dump you !

We need to learn principle in life and in of course in our relation. We should work of our self awareness. In fact we have to have more self awareness. we should recognize our weak point , our strengths , what we like , what we don’t , what we expect from the partner and our relation .we have to  be honest with ourselves in this case we can make difference in our relation also . We should trust our self and review our goal. if someone want you and enjoy being with you ; he / she has to want you with all of you , the way that you are and help you to improve better and better .we have to to talk about weak points also . it is great if you tell your partner I am too emotional and  I need you care .

Please don’t act like machine we are human.

About gosheh

I have alot to say about me that is why I am here ! but more than that , it is not just about me it is about how I think. Cheers
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